The Lovers today... but today it's about hard lessons in love that I feel many of us are learning at this time. The 5 of Cups is a sign of disappointment, hurt, loneliness, even grief. Perhaps your heart feels this way around the subject of love. I think many people have a bit of a fantasy of what real romantic love looks like...I know I certainly did before I found it. The Page of Pentacles in a love reading isn't the guy who throws pebbles at your window to recite love poems to you in the night. No, he's the guy that takes out the trash before you ask and he's the guy that doesnt always know the right thing to say, but he listens and he hears you and if you're upset by life, he holds you tight and doesn't let go until you are ready for him to. The Page of Pentacles is known for his practicality, his commitment, and his contentment even on the most mundane of days. This Page rolls behind the scenes and is often missed because he's just always there, always doing right by things. The Pages are messengers and today I believe the message is not to overlook someone just because they don't immediately sweep you off your feet. It doesn't mean it cant be romantic and exciting in time. The beauty of this Page is he a hard worker, compassionate too, and though it may not come naturally, he's willing to learn your love language. Thats a big deal. Sometimes our hearts have to break and break and break again until we learn that love is no game, it's not a movie either, but a very real and necessary thing in most adult lives. It could be argued that romantic partnership is the biggest factor in our adult evolution, but in order to have something really real, all parties involved must willing to let go of certain fantasies. Evolving requires humbling ourselves, accepting ourselves and someone else as they are because no one person is perfect. But there is a "perfect" for each of us out there, a tangible love with the person who sparks our growth and we spark theirs and neither of us require fantasy anymore because real is so much better. It's work! But so worth it. It's been my experience that when one is ready, this person rolls up fairly naturally, just like the Page of Pentacles.
Namaste 💙
